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Hello Bob,
I was thinking about you all day and then suddenly I found this prayer and what your mother wrote.
It is impossible that what you found could be a "coincidence". There is a reason why you found it and let me say you are a very lucky ma...
Thank you for your comments, especially you, Glauco and Rudenski. I love you as well.
Sounds like you had a wonderful mother who really cared about you all. Mary Roberts
Amen
Good morning Bob, your mom sounds wonderful! She knows who she is and know where she's was going. How awesome for you to find this prayers.
Did this help you a bit? I hope so. To me it feels like there is a deeper reason why she wrote this. Oh man...
Bob,
Those words are from someone that knows as opposed to believing... It is powerful medicine to see that in someone who is blood related to you... So much of religion tries to push others down so they can feel tall... but your dear mother figu...
From my mother's 50 year old worn out prayer book...
My dearly beloved mother and father. Look upon us with those eyes of kindness that so often won our hearts when on this earth. Day and night, as of old, you hear in Heaven's court, the voices o...
FINALLY, FROM THE "ELIAS" MATERIAL...(who seems to be a bit more "advanced" than our friend "seth"..who doesn't seem to understand that linear time does not exist)
ELIAS: “Remanifestation is not reincarnation. They are entirely different elements...
COURSE IN MIRACLES?
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83-If you should still remain certain of reincarnation after reading all of this, would you please provide an explanation for this spirit message fr...
PRE-BIRTH MEMORIES? OR....SOMETHING ELSE?
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58-If you accept pre-birth memories and reincarnation “memories” to be valid, would you please explain how you arrive at this ...
47-Could you please provide a logical explanation for these cases, if birthmarks are the ultimate proof of reincarnation? (But not all such marks come from troublesome spirits or demons. A biographer of Stainton Moses, commenting on a scratch he r...
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21-Perhaps, after reading all of this, you might wonder… ‘if reincarnation is not true, how can so many people believe it? So many people believe it, it just has to be tr...
REGARDING DR. BRIAN WEISS AND HIS SUPPOSED "MASTERS":
12-If you consider reincarnation to be a fact and “memories” and marks to be “proof” of it, and you think Brian Weiss and his books are verification of reincarnation, could you please provide ...
5-If you still consider “memories” and birthmarks to be wonderful proofs of reincarnation, and that perhaps Dr. Carl Wickland (former director of the Psychopathic Institute of Chicago) among others, are simply quacks, would you please provide a lo...
PAUL: "I tell you, without the slightest doubt, that the place your consciousness entered was absolutely real.
How can I speak with such assurance?
I believe I was reached by the Other Side when I was ten, upon which I was taken to the higher plac...
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- At 7:07am on September 21, 2009,
Lynn Belding said…
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What happened the 3 times you met with your Mom and other people you knew since she passed? Was anything said about your Dad?
What was your life and relationship with Dad, Mom, sibs, wife, and kids like before these things happened?
Did you have a job or hobbies that you enjoyed? Would you define yourself as more happy-go-lucky or more carrying the cares of the world on your shoulders?
OK Bob, that should be enough questions for now, I will send the other 100 or so tomorrow. (Not really) lol
If you find it too hard to answer any of these questions, I will understand. I just wanted the information because I thought it might help me to help you.
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So happy to be your friend,
Lynn
- At 7:02am on September 21, 2009,
- Dear Bob:
Forgive me if it takes a while to reply to you.
I didn’t mention that I am online sporadically due to a disability.
I just finished reading some of your comments, to gain insight on you and your challenges.
You remind me so much of me and I REALLY understand (a lot of) your pain
I think you will be amazed when you hear some of my challenges and how similar they are to yours.
You can be sure that I will do my best to help you attain freedom from the thoughts and fears that plague you.
I was hoping you could fill in some of these blanks for me:
You mentioned Mom’s teaching about God and Jesus as a little boy:
Were you taught anything that brought you comfort?
Were you taught anything that made you uneasy?
Is next month the two year anniversary of your Dad’s death?
Who took care of your Mom in her last stages of cancer?
I’m guessing that you shared the details of your dream and NDE with your loved ones.
Set aside for just a moment how their words made you feel, being as objective as possible do you remember the initial reaction:
Of your Mom?
Your brother?
Your sister?
Your wife?
Your kids?
I suppose that your Mom’s death, compounded with the worry about your Dad sent you over the edge. How is anyone to maintain composure when being overwhelmed by that kind of fear and grief?
What is the family’s practical advice on how you are to “Just Get Over it?”
They will re-establish contact with when you do what to treat your “so called” mental illness?”
- At 5:11am on September 20, 2009,
bangaroo said…
- Hi Bob,
Glauco has invited us to join the page of the auther Wayne Dyer. I suggest you join and listen to the guy speaking. I've read most of his books and he is fantastic. Easy to listen and undestand. I don't believe in coincidences so you see, maybe listening to him telling us why we are here, where we come from, who is walking right beside us all the time is not just by chance. Please, join so you can finally listen to a guy who can talk to your heart.
With love and blessings Dear Bob, Bangaroo
- At 12:54pm on September 17, 2009,
bangaroo said…
- Hello Dear Bob,
I'm so glad to hear from you!!!! I've had a bad cold and fever so I couldn't quite concentrate on writing to you even though I thought of you many, many times.
Bob, for God's sake you should really stop wondering about the opinions of other people about death and the afterlife. Each is entitled to its point of view even if we don't agree with them. YOUR opinion is what counts to YOU. For what you have felt and lived through, with your sensitive soul, please, please Bob, trust in your intuition. What you feel is what is true for you, not what others believe to be true.
So if you believe (actually you have your own experience about it) there is life after death, well, that's more than enough. Of course, you may doubt sometimes, I do too, but so what. You believe because you have lived certain things other people can't even imagine, that's why you should trust only in yourself. What the next guy thinks is his problem and opinion that has nothing to do with you.
Muslims believe that after their death as martyrs they'll go to heaven where 72 virgins will be waiting for them!!! Do I have to believe the same thing? It was just an example, of course, I respect their religion and their right to believe in the prophet Mohamed. Jews are expecting their Messiah, why not? It's their right. It doesn't mean I have to believe the same thing. God is a personal choice. I choose to believe in a loving God, a forgiving God, a compassionate God who will receive me in his bosom after I'm done here. I have had experiences which have convinced me (and only me) that it is so. If a friend, my sister, the neighbor disagree, well, it's their right but it doesn't make me change my mind. They haven't been trough the same mystical experiences I have and there is no point in trying to convince them.
Sometimes it makes me feel lonely to be the only one between so many people I know who believes these things but I have learned to accept it. People in general are down to earth, few are sensitive.
You know better Dear Bob, your opinion, your belief, your gut feeling is what counts. Your parents are at rest, their spirit is where it should be, with God. You have to go through the dark night of the soul, as many, many saints and common people like us have been, and come out in one piece, stronger than before. It is not a sin to doubt, even Jesus doubted. He said "Father, why have you abandoned me?"
I tell God the same thing so many times. But I know deep inside that if I don't have God's love then I have nothing. Here in this life, everything I loved dearly has betrayed and forsaken me, my heart is broken but I have to go on because without HIM I'm lost. He is OUR refuge, there is no other. It is sad, but it is the truth.
I will keep you in my thoughts every day Bob, God is holding your hand. It is us, in our ignorance and fear who try to run away from Him. But He knows best and holds us tight so we can always come back to Him.
Bangaroo
- At 6:51am on September 13, 2009,
- Dear Bob
I read you comment on Glauco's page 8/17/09 4:27am and my heart is breaking for you. I can only tell you that I know your pain because I have experienced many of the same things.
I don't want to be preached at and told what's correct by people. I don't want the one I love and depend on so very much to leave me when I need them the most. I don't want my siblings to tell me they are too busy to help with our dying parents only to turn and make demands on how I am to care for them.
and so much more....................through it all here I sit writing to you with loving care and understanding of that kind of sadness and fear. I am so sorry that your experience left you feeling like maybe your Dad has been lost. I can tell you how sure I am that he is not but these words sound so empty and trite in the midst of that kind of pain.
If I could be so bold as to pray: Dear Sweet Lord thank you for ALL THINGS exactly as they are. Thank you for Bob's wife and my ex exactly as they are. Thank you for giving Bob and myself our experiences just as they were for YOU ALONE know what the final outcome will be. Thank you Lord that you have NEVER and will NEVER give up on a single one of us here or there.
Thank you for Bob and his beautiful, sensitive, spirit.
Love Lynn
- At 2:06pm on August 25, 2009,
bangaroo said…
- Dear Bob,
Thank you for your message Bob. What do you mean you hope I'm sincere...of course I am, why should I pretend to be Bob. Love is given freely and compassion is love in action. Sometimes I, like you, would have preferred to be different and not feel things so deeply. I guess this is the way we are, our souls have felt things others have not. Actually, you should think that you are blessed. Being tough is not better, it does not show strength, these people who feel no compassion for others are not strong, actually they are very weak inside. If anything happens to them they disintegrate and only have feelings of hate and not love. They think of revenge.
I'm glad you told me that I didn't interfere. I do worry though Bob and pray you find a way out of your pain. At least, you should let go a little bit. I love the phrase that says "Let go and let GOD!!!". It had helped me a lot to go through impossibly painful situations. I used to repeat this over and over, meaning it, and letting God to handle the situation, I could not do anything more.
There is a reason for everything, I don't know why of course, but nothing happens by chance.
Maybe going through so much pain is not without a reason. It may be God wanting to know that even than we still love Him first in our lives. Sometimes I talk to him and tell him," You know that you come first!!! so why so much hardship? " It took me many years to understand that looking for human love was in vain, now I know. He can love me like nobody else ever will. He loves you like nobody else ever will. He is waiting at the door of our heart begging for us to let Him in, begging for our love. We delay, like capricious children who have so many toys to play with, we tell Him, later! Then one day we understand that all those toys, all these people we thought loved us betrayed us one by one and only He is there patiently waiting.
When I understood that, I cried bitter tears. Can you imagine...? God begging for "my" love? begging at the door of "my" heart" to let Him in? What joy there was when that happened finally. What a fool I had been all those years looking for human love when right next to me, closer than my breath was the ONLY love that would never betray me.
Be well Bob, I mean every single word I write, you are my brother, another soul, a sensitive one, in pain.
God bless, Bangaroo
- At 5:58pm on August 24, 2009,
bangaroo said…
- Dear Bob,
I haven't heard from you for a few days. I hope you are a little better. Maybe I send you a very long message or you may think I'm getting involved in something that is not my business. If I did, I'm truly sorry. I meant well.
Please, give me some news. I think of you every day and send you love. I wish very strongly that the pain you feel will go away slowly and steadily.
Be well Bob, we do care,
God bless, Bangaroo
- At 6:08am on August 17, 2009,
bangaroo said…
- Sorry Bob, I did something with the pc apparently without realizing it. So, Jesus just spoke of love, to love one another. He brought love and spoke of love. He never said some priests will have power over us. He said His Father is our Father too. He said what He did we could do too. He called the priests of that time hypocrites and today some of them still are. He was a revolutionary for his time. He spoke of compassion and generosity. Of love and respect.
Put your trust in Him, what have you got to loose? Try it. Say for example, God, I can't take it anymore, here is my pain, take it. Do with it as you please, I'm tired and confused. Take care of me, take my burden, it is too heavy for me to bear.
You are in my thoughts Bob, in my prayers too.
May today bring you some peace in your heart, some rest in your soul.
Love, Bangaroo
- At 5:58am on August 17, 2009,
bangaroo said…
- Dear Bob,
Please I would like you to rest assured that your parents are well and live in another dimension. One few people can see. You did. Believe in yourself and not in what people tell you to believe, since they do not know. YOU DO!!! You have SEEN IT.
You didn't screw anything up. You are hurting, you are in pain. Loss of a loved one (in your case lately your dear mother and your wife) is painful, very painful. So, you see, you are going through mourning. Mourning for two people very recently. Mourning is like dying a little. Mourning is pain that we have to go through until it's over with. It will leave scars. It becomes less painful with time Bob, only time can heal this pain. It never goes completely away but it becomes smoother, lighter. less intense.
Do not pay attention to the ones who tell you that your are nuts. Actually, they are because they don't hurt easily, they are tougher and don't really care. We cannot measure mental pain, it can be very intense and paralyze us. Pain is like a very big wave, it will engulf you but eventually it will go back to sea, leaving you weaker but well.
Could you try something Bob? Live only for NOW. Try living only in the moment you live. What happened yesterday or 10 min. ago cannot be undone, it is just a memory. What will happen in 10 min. or tomorrow we know nothing about. The only moment we are fully aware of is the now. Please, try it. It can take you trough the day, one at a time. Actually, the now is the only thing we can live. Yesterday is the past and only a memory, tomorrow or next week is a mystery we known nothing about. So what is left is right now, nothing else, I'm sure you can cope with only right now, blocking yesterday and blocking tomorrow. Actually, it makes sense since tomorrow is not now and yesterday is gone.
Some people cannot stand sadness, they cannot cope. They only want to be merry. Leave them. They have no compassion. You do. You shouldn't worry about your parents anymore. They are where they are, you know it, listening to the various ignorants who tell you they reincarnated is completely wrong. How do they know that? Time in the other dimensions is not like time in this one. It doesn't help trying to imagine different options of where they are. Their souls are with God, you know it. You saw your father. He was alive as a soul and so is your mother. Let them be Bob. They are at peace.
The only thing you should try to do for the moment, is live only for now. Think only for now. Breath only for now. Forget the past, even yesterday, forget tomorrow, only now.
I know you don't want to attract attention Bob. Here we are a family. This family of many people have gone through a lot of pain and despair. That's why we have love, that why you are my brother Bob. That's why we love you, that's why we care about you. Through pain we have understood what compassion is. Compassion is love in action. How can we not love you? How can we not care?
You are the brother I never had, the son I never had, the friend I never had. Can you see that? We are one, walking this planet called earth is our home. We are the same, we have put limits on whose land is which and called it America, Spain, Mongolia and such. We have created religion, Jesus never spoke of churches
- At 9:17am on August 16, 2009,
Glauco@NDE-Space said…
- Hey brother, I know what you are going thru and I understand your pain.
I agree with Sane and bangarro. Don't forget that we LOVE you and so does JESUS!
He's love is the glue that holds us together.
I'm over my sisters house 3 hours away for a family get together and she also invited her friends from church. Last night we all pray for you.
Don't ever forget that family is the people that care for you.
The pastors that were here agree with me when I said that God know's our heart and He also knows what we need and when we need it.
It's not a coincidence you are here with us. Your family here loves you!
Jesus promise us paradise and you know is thru because you have been there.
We are all brothers and sisters! We have the same Dad!
Our Father, may everything our brother Bob does and think begin with Your
Inspiration, continue with Your Help and reach perfection under Your Guidance.
With Your loving care guide him in my daily actions.
Help him to persevere with love and sincerity.
Teach him to judge wisely the things of earth
and to love the things of Heaven.
Keep him in Your presence Lord
and never let him be separated from You.
Your Spirit made him Your child,
confident to call You Father.
Make Your Love the foundation of his life.
Teach him to long for Heaven.
May its promise and hope guide his way on earth
until we all reach eternal life with You. Amen.
We love you my brother!
Glauco
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An Old Prayer Book...
From my mother's 50 year old worn out prayer book...
My dearly beloved mother and father. Look upon us with those eyes of kindness that so often won our hearts when on this earth. Day and night, as of old, you hear in Heaven's court, the voices of us, your sons and daughters upon earth, joined in praising the precious blood and linked with the angelic choirs. Dearest mother and father, if our voices may reach that throne of majesty, we ourselves are not yet come there, would you guard us and gu… Continue
My dearly beloved mother and father. Look upon us with those eyes of kindness that so often won our hearts when on this earth. Day and night, as of old, you hear in Heaven's court, the voices of us, your sons and daughters upon earth, joined in praising the precious blood and linked with the angelic choirs. Dearest mother and father, if our voices may reach that throne of majesty, we ourselves are not yet come there, would you guard us and gu… Continue
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